This months Ask Mocha is dedicated to the
many men and women who ask me weekly
what am I doing wrong with my life,? How can
I change?
i consider myself to be a very strength
based person, so in order for me to
answer that question i would have to
ask them to find out what they are doing
right in their lives first. once you reach a
level of comfort and love for yourself and
start to appreciate who you are and what
you stand for, you can begin to build the
foundation for happiness in your life,
which will answer your uncertainties
about what's wrong. We call this building
on strengths not weaknesses. you may
not find anything wrong with yourself.
you may be lacking love. This may seem
cliché but love conquers all. Love really
does heal. i see and feel pain inside of
people because i use to be "a pain expert'
dwelling on everything wrong and how
i was a victim of life's circumstances,
as if i was the only person in the world who
had problems. (LoL) Well i found out that i
was not alone, and after doing an inventory
of what i was good at, i started building on
my strengths,helping others heal. i noticed
that my weakness didn't lie in the forefront
of my mind anymore. i became comfortable
with who i was and realized that i have alot
to offer the world and so do you! have
you ever heard of the Law of attraction?
you will attract what you put out. Good
energy attracts good company. here are
some things to ask your self: What are you
striving for? Describe your best qualities.
What are you good at doing? Think of all
the things you are good at...are you a good
talker? Do you meet people easily? Do you
like to play a musical instrument? are you
good at sport,making people laugh or are
you a stylish dresser? are you organized
and efficient? Would you hire you? Would
you be your friend? focus on aLL the
things you are good at and feel good about
yourself. Create that feeling of success
within you. Don't focus on the things you
want to change, just focus on your good
qualities and change will come! i hope this
helps my friends...Love, Mocha Latte'
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